49 Day Prayer
This ritual is a meaningful way for families to support their departed loved ones and continue their memory. It reflects the belief in the power of positive actions and prayers to aid the deceased in their spiritual journey.
In Singapore, after a funeral service, a special 49-day prayer ritual is observed based on Buddhist customs.
It is also customary for many Chinese and Buddhists to refrain from participating in joyous occasions during the mourning period.
This means they may opt not to attend events such as weddings and baby showers.
This period of abstaining from celebrations typically spans 100 days.
The purpose of this 49-day prayer ritual is to support the deceased in their transition to the afterlife.
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Following this period of mourning, some families choose to hold a special ceremony on the 100th day.
This commemoration often involves the presentation of intricate offerings and heartfelt prayers. It provides an opportunity for family and friends to come together in a meaningful observance of this important milestone.
Here's a simple breakdown of the process:
1. Placement of Memorial Items:
After the funeral, the memorial tablet, incense urn, and a photograph of the deceased are kept in a temple or at home.
2. Merit-Making Ceremony:
Family members can perform a merit-making ceremony. This means doing good deeds to accumulate positive karma, which is then shared with the departed. Common actions include adopting a vegetarian diet, engaging in charitable acts, and inviting a monk to chant and pray for the deceased.
3. Focus on Key Days:
Throughout the 49 days, there are significant days, especially the 7th, 21st, 35th, and 49th days. These are particularly important for prayers and offerings.
4. Offerings:
Family members prepare offerings like food, flowers, and paper items to present to the departed. This is a way to show respect and to keep the memory of the deceased alive.
5. Funeral Directors Assistance:
At PFCS, our Funeral Directors are available to guide and assist with these customs. They can also help in making any necessary arrangements.